Not an agency. Not a recruiter. A free resource.

Don't pick a surrogacy agency until you've looked at a few.

Most women go with the first agency they find. We help you see which ones fit — based on real pay, how they treat surrogates, and what works for your life. Takes about 2 minutes.

Free. No commitment. About 2 minutes. You choose if and when to contact any agency.

See where you stand in 2 minutes

About 12 basic questions — pregnancy history, height and weight, where you live. Nothing invasive, just the basics.

  • 1 Your age and location
  • 2 Pregnancy and birth history
  • 3 A few basic health questions
  • 4 Your support system at home

We only show agencies that use independent escrow and are upfront about pay.

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What surrogate compensation actually looks like

You've probably seen ads claiming $90K–$100K+. Here's what that number really breaks down to.

Your quiz result will show where you likely fall in this range based on your answers and which agencies pay in that range.

Typical base compensation
$50,000 - $65,000

This is what most first-time surrogates actually receive as their base pay. It varies by agency, location, and experience.

Additional / contingent payments
Varies

Things like C-section fees, multiples, monthly allowances, and maternity clothing. These aren't guaranteed and depend on your specific journey.

Why this matters: A lot of ads use the highest possible total to get you to click. We'd rather you know the base number upfront so there are no surprises later.

The timeline is 18-24 months

From your first application to delivery, the full surrogacy process typically takes a year and a half to two years. It's not quick.

Most surrogates do 2 rounds of IVF

The first embryo transfer doesn't always take. That's normal, but it's something a lot of people don't know going in.

Screening takes about 3 months

Medical screening, psychological evaluation, background checks, and legal review. Agencies are thorough, and they should be.

Not every applicant qualifies

And that's okay. There are medical and personal requirements for a reason. It's better to find out early than halfway through the process.

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We save you hours in just two minutes

Start with a short quiz. End with clear answers about qualification, real pay, and which agencies actually fit you.

1

Tell us about you

Age range, location, birth history, and a few health questions. It takes less than 2 minutes.

2

We check if you qualify

We compare your answers to the minimum requirements for surrogates.

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Get your results

See if you'd likely qualify and what you could really earn based on your answers.

4

See your agency matches

We show you vetted agencies that fit what you told us. You choose if and when to reach out. We never share your info without your say-so.

What you get at the end of the quiz

Here's exactly what you walk away with after the quiz — whether you decide to move forward or not.

Initial qualification check

Whether you're likely to meet the basic requirements most agencies use for surrogates.

What you will make

A realistic base pay range based on your state and background. No "up to 100k+" hype.

Find a surrogacy agency

A short list of vetted agencies that match your answers so you're not guessing where to apply.

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We don't work for agencies or intended parents. We work for you.

We built Real Talk after years of seeing inflated pay numbers, long applications that waste your time, and good agencies getting drowned out by big ad budgets. We're not an agency. We just help you get real answers and find agencies you can trust.

Our interests match yours

We only get paid if you become a surrogate. That means we want to help you find the right fit — not just any fit.

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We vet the agencies

Not all agencies are the same. We check each one before we show them to you — things like escrow, legal counsel, and how they treat surrogates.

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Real pay numbers

The $100K number in ads? That's not what shows up in your bank account. We show you what your base pay actually looks like.

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Options, your choice

Surrogacy is a big deal. We give you a few good agencies to look at so you can pick the one that feels right — not just the first one you find.

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We don't share your info

We don't share your info with anyone unless you ask us to. No spam. No surprise calls. You're in control.

Save time

Instead of filling out long applications at three different agencies, spend two minutes here first. You'll know if you qualify and who's worth your time.

Stuff other sites won't tell you

Surrogacy is a big deal. We'd rather you know the hard parts upfront than find out after you've already committed.

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    Surrogacy is a real medical process

    Most surrogates do two rounds of IVF. That means, shots, doctor appointments, etc. It's not just "being pregnant for someone else."

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    If you need money now, Surrogacy probably isn't for you

    From application to first payment can be 6+ months. The full process takes 18-24 months. Plan accordingly.

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    Not everyone qualifies

    Age, birth history and health history are just the basic requirements. There is a long list of additional requirements before someone can become a surrogate.

If that still sounds worth it to you, check if you qualify and see your matches.

Before you start


No. The quiz is free, the results are free, and you decide what to do with them. We don't sign you up for anything.
No. We don't recruit surrogates, we don't match you with intended parents, and we don't handle any part of the medical or legal process. We help you get educated and find vetted agencies. That's it.
We look at over 100 things — real reviews, how they handle escrow, their legal process, how they treat surrogates, and more. We only get paid if you become a surrogate, so we're picky about who makes the list.
No. We don't call you. If you see an agency you like, you decide whether to reach out on your own terms.
Generally: ages 21-40, at least one prior birth with no major complications, healthy BMI, non-smoker, no recent felonies, and living in a surrogacy-friendly state. The quiz will walk you through the specifics.
No. It's completely free for surrogates. The quiz is free, the results are free, and applying to any agency through our platform is free. We only get paid by agencies when a surrogate we sent them is actually approved and placed, not just for you clicking or filling out a form.
Just the basics: your age, state, pregnancy history, height and weight, and a few health-related questions. We don't ask for SSNs, insurance info, financial details, or anything sensitive. At the end we'll ask for your name and email so we can show you your results.

Before you spend hours on a long application, spend 2 minutes here.

See if you'd qualify, what you could earn, and which agencies fit you. No account needed.

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Two minutes. Twelve questions. No commitment. No account needed.

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Are you interested in becoming a surrogate?
What state do you live in?
Surrogacy laws vary by state. This helps us check eligibility and match agencies in your area.
Please select your state.
How old are you?
Heads up: Most agencies require surrogates to be between 21 and 39. You can still finish the quiz — some agencies may have different age requirements.
What are your height and weight?
Most agencies require a BMI under 33. We'll check this for you.
Please fill in your height and weight.
Have you given birth to at least one child?
Heads up: Most agencies require at least one prior successful birth. You can still finish the quiz to see your options.
Do you currently smoke, vape, or use tobacco products?
Heads up: Most agencies require you to be tobacco-free for at least 12 months. You can still finish the quiz — some agencies may work with you on a cessation plan.
Do you currently use recreational drugs, including marijuana?
Heads up: Agencies require surrogates to be drug-free. You can still finish the quiz, but this may affect your eligibility.
Have you or your spouse/partner ever been convicted of a felony?
Heads up: A felony conviction may affect eligibility with most agencies. You can still finish the quiz to see your options.
Do you have a support system who could help during a surrogate pregnancy?
Great news — so far, so good.

Based on your answers, you could be on the right track. A few more quick questions help us estimate what you could earn.

How many births and C-sections have you had?
Almost done — where should we send your results?
Please enter your first name and email.

We don't share your info. No spam. No surprise calls.